8 Types of Travel Roommates (and How to Survive Them)

Traveling with friends, strangers, or even acquaintances can turn into an unforgettable adventure (or a total disaster) depending on the roommate situation. Whether you’re backpacking across Europe, renting an Airbnb in Bali, or splitting a hotel room in New York City, the people you share your space with can make or break the trip.

Here’s a breakdown of eight types of travel roommates you’re likely to encounter on your journeys — plus tips on how to make it work, no matter who ends up bunking beside you.

1. The Planner

Think color-coded spreadsheets, sunrise hikes, fully booked itineraries, and an internal clock synced with world time zones. The Planner is the human version of Google Calendar. They’ve got activities scheduled from dawn till dusk and probably sent you a shared doc weeks ago (which you may or may not have opened). This travel roommate can be a blessing, especially if you’re prone to winging it, but it can also be overwhelming if you're more spontaneous.

Survival Tip: Let them take the reins for a few days, and suggest a mix of “planned” and “free” time to keep both of you happy.

2. The Ghost

This roommate is always out. Seriously, are they even on this trip? You’ll barely see The Ghost. They leave at sunrise, come back after midnight, and you’re convinced they’re running a secret spy mission. While this roommate is low-maintenance, don’t expect deep convos or late-night bonding sessions.

Survival Tip: Respect their independence, and agree on logistics early (like who gets the key, check-out times, etc.) so you’re not left guessing.

3. The Instagram Influencer

Every moment is a photo op. Outfit changes mid-day. Will delay breakfast for “golden hour.” This travel roommate is always chasing the perfect shot. From scenic backdrops to carefully arranged breakfast plates, everything is content. Your patience might be tested when you’re asked to take 37 versions of the same picture — but hey, you’ll have stunning photos for your own feed.

Survival Tip: Embrace the moment and snap a few shots of your own. Just make sure to plan enough time so that sightseeing doesn’t turn into a photoshoot-only trip.

4. The Homebody Abroad

This roommate loves the Airbnb more than the Eiffel Tower. Comfort-first, nap-heavy, big on snacks. The Homebody Abroad is happiest lounging indoors, ordering local takeout, and watching Netflix with subtitles. While you might want to hit the streets and explore, they’ll be content turning the hotel room into a second living room.

Survival Tip: Split up when needed. Not everyone travels the same way, and that’s okay. Coordinate your chill and adventure times to avoid conflicts.

5. The Snorer

Sleeps like a log... and sounds like a chainsaw. You won’t forget your trip with The Snorer, even if you desperately want to — because you’ll spend it wide awake. They’re sweet during the day, but come nighttime, you’ll be searching for noise-canceling headphones and praying for mercy.

Survival Tip: Pack earplugs, white noise apps, or even a separate sleeping arrangement when possible. Don’t be afraid to talk about it — they may not even realize how loud they are.

6. The Free Spirit

No schedule, no rules, no problem. This roommate may miss trains but they make lifelong friends at cafes. The Free Spirit lives in the moment and follows their vibe. This roommate might forget reservations or wander off into a street festival they “just discovered.” They’re fun, adventurous, and maybe a bit chaotic.

Survival Tip: Embrace the spontaneity for some of your trip, but if you’re a stickler for plans, agree to part ways for different activities now and then.

7. The Overpacker

Needs three outfit options per day, multiple pairs of shoes, and possibly brought a hairdryer to the jungle. Their luggage could double as a portable closet. They’ll use up all the storage space, take over the bathroom, and ask you to help zip their suitcase before checkout. On the plus side, they’ll have anything you forgot—from Band-Aids to extra chargers.

Survival Tip: Set clear boundaries for shared space and consider bringing packing cubes or organizers to avoid chaos in small rooms.

8. The Budget Boss

This travel roommate lives by spreadsheets, loves splitting bills to the penny, and finds 2-for-1 deals before anyone else. You’ll appreciate The Budget Boss if you're traveling on a tight budget! They know all the hacks. But if you're hoping for a few indulgences, you might clash over splurge dinners or last-minute expenses.

Survival Tip: Talk about spending expectations early. Agree on when to save and when to spend so there are no awkward money moments later.

Finding the Right Roommate

Roommate dynamics are a huge part of any travel experience. While some mismatches are just a quirky story later, others can lead to real tension. That’s why it helps to find someone compatible before you hit the road — or better yet, before you even book the trip.

If you're traveling long-term, relocating temporarily, or just need a place to stay during your adventures, SpareRoom is a great tool to find the perfect travel roommate. You can browse listings, connect with like-minded people, and choose someone whose travel (and living) style matches your own.

After all, the best adventures are the ones where you come home with amazing stories — not horror tales of shared bathrooms and mismatched schedules.

Final Thoughts

Travel roommates can introduce you to new cultures, unexpected adventures, and lifelong friendships — or test your patience and sleep schedule. Whether you vibe best with the Planner, the Free Spirit, or even The Snorer, the key is communication, flexibility, and a good sense of humor.

So before your next big trip, think about what kind of roommate you are – and what kind you want to share a room with. The journey is just as important as the destination, and who you share it with makes all the difference.